Holy smokes. I just got done reading all of these posts. This has to have been a horribly bumpy road for you to travel. Hopefully, things will get better for the both of you.
A buddy of mine just got done with his wife being hooked on crack. He's filing for divorce, but she's locked up in the looney bin, so I know its not all over yet. It was really tough for him, especially the 3 months he spent in jail for trying to "help" her. Too bad their kid went through all of that.
My best friend had to kick his girlfriend (and subsequently his 2 yr old daughter) out of his house. He found out that she had been selling off all of his stuff to a secondhand store. Over 100 dvd's, 4 guitars, and 2 amps. This is after he caught her cheating on him a month after their kid was born. He gave her the benefit of a doubt. Drugs really can screw things up if left unchecked. He knew she had a pill problem too, but he trusted her when she said she was done. Money ain't shit compared to trust. Now he's paying support, but she got help and he gets weekends with his daughter.
But anyways, keep your chin up and watch your back. If she really wants help, that's a good start. Watch out for lies. Addicts are well known for lying, and who knows what she's still capable of at this point. And numnuts might have beef and might come back for her to finish some business. Let's hope he stays far outside the picture.
Nonetheless, the only way to go from here on is forward. Don't be concerned with what she did in the past. Focus on the future and what needs to be done. Give her the help that she needs and keep yourself in check. You can always come here to vent or ask for advice.
Really worried.
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