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i've got an interesting experience with a chick.

so we went out for 2 and a half years, we had a baby toegether a beautiful girl that has to date been the best thing to ever happen to me.

a bit over a year after having her she just decides were over, its not working. i didnt feel that way i was in love with her, and there was NOOOO warning what so ever. so after beating around the bush for almost a month the best reasons i got out of her as to why she dumped me were that i didnt do enough dishes and didnt force her to wake up to go to school causing her to be kicked out.

so i've basically said fuck it and now i devote all the time i have out of work to my 1.5yr old daughter. and i gotta say i've met some pretty amazing chicks lately and i'm not even looking! i guess they appreciate the whole responsible 20yr old father look.

-Alex

oh yeah and i found out a month after we broke up she started dating her ex boyfriend who is sum punk emo retard looser kid... go figure a jobless kook over a guy who was putting a roof over your head and asking for not much at all in return

That's much shittier than my little ordeal.

Imprezive wrote:That's much shittier than my little ordeal.

Exactly, its all about perspective. I'd take the right girl not liking me over the wrong one liking me any day of the week. All women are crazy, you just have to find the one that is worth dealing with. Oh yes, there is usually a 2 month grace period before the crazy comes out.

Women are different animals. They always leave you because they cheated on you. And they always lie about why they're leaving you and you always find out sooner or later the real reason they left you.

Men cheat on women they love just for the sex and are still able to love her just the same. I don't want to sound to crazy here but I think it's just natural that way.

Not saying this applies to all women or all men but from what I've seen, it sure seems to.

They're also very strange in that the best way to keep them around seems to be to make them insecure about themselves. For some reason if you tell them all the time how great they are and do everything for them they seem to gain confidence and leave you for someone they deem more attractive or "better" than you. That's when you hear about how shitty they get treated all the time by the new boyfriend and the crazy thing is they stick with him!

Completely fucking mind boggling!! I think that same thing eventually turns a lot of guys from being the sweet guy who will do anything for a girl into being that dick guy who treats his girlfriend like shit and she sticks around because she feels she's not good enough for anyone else.

Now I'm really rambling.

magicmike wrote: All women are crazy, you just have to find the one that is worth dealing with. Oh yes, there is usually a 2 month grace period before the crazy comes out.

this quote is awesome. well said.

Eventually you meet a woman that doesn't do any of that nonsense and shoots you strait (whether you need it or not), and before you know it, she's your wife. And she'll show up at the least likely (or convenient) time and place.

A month before I met my wife I got shitfaced in a bar, got on the karaoke machine and announced that my current g/f (present at the time) was hereby dumped. I then swore up and down that it would be years before I married one of those bat-shit crazy women I'd always ended up with.... before the bouncer grabbed the mic and threw my ass out.

11 months after I said that I had a ring on my finger. Best 4 years of my life, and counting.

An interesting anecdote of mine I thought I'd share...