For Those Of You Who Are Married

J-MoNeY · Post by **J-MoNeY** » Fri May 05, 2006 3:19 am

How long were you dating before you got married?

How old were you when you asked?

How long have you two been together?

How did the guy propose? Or women if she did.

Did you live together first?

Any advice for those who arn't?

stipro · Post by **stipro** » Fri May 05, 2006 3:35 am

J-MoNeY wrote:How long were you dating before you got married?

4 years.

How old were you when you asked?

26

How long have you two been together?

4years, and six months roughly.

How did the guy propose? Or women if she did.

I took her for a walk , down to the local park, we sat on a bench along the waters egde, I held her, and asked.

Did you live together first?

No.

Any advice for those who arn't?

arn't what?

J-MoNeY · Post by **J-MoNeY** » Fri May 05, 2006 3:39 am

arn't what?

Married, duh.

stipro · Post by **stipro** » Fri May 05, 2006 3:52 am

J-MoNeY wrote:
arn't what?
Married, duh.

I dont remember what that feels like

just joking. Although if my wife read that it would be a different story.

J-MoNeY · Post by **J-MoNeY** » Fri May 05, 2006 5:53 am

rallysam · Post by **rallysam** » Fri May 05, 2006 3:59 pm

How long were you dating before you got married?
9 years

How old were you when you asked?
25

How long have you two been together?
8 years

How did the guy propose? Or women if she did.
Hiked to the top of a mountain with a view of the fall colored foliage. Then I popped it with the ring. She just about had a heart attack. But after saying "you're kidding?" about a million times, she said yes.

Did you live together first?
Yes in college, no ever since.

Any advice for those who arn't?
You mean advice for when and how to pop it? I say don't rush into it (haha - that should be obvious based on how long I dated!). Make sure you can weather some ups and downs. Make sure you can both grow and change and yet you are STILL be right for each other. Make sure you get through one of those periods where you or bored or frustrated with each other, and yet you still come out the other side wanting nobody else.

Just my 2 cents, everybody does it differently

0perose · Post by **0perose** » Fri May 05, 2006 7:29 pm

rallysam wrote:How long were you dating before you got married?
9 years

How old were you when you asked?
25

How long have you two been together?
8 years

you were dating 9 years before you got married but you've only been together for 8 years?

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm*DOESNOTCOMPUTE*mmmmmmmmmbzzt

LaureltheQueen · Post by **LaureltheQueen** » Fri May 05, 2006 7:56 pm

maybe been married for 8 years?

0perose · Post by **0perose** » Fri May 05, 2006 8:21 pm

LaureltheQueen wrote:maybe been married for 8 years?

yeah that's what I figured but either the question or the answer is worded strangely

farfrumwork · Post by **farfrumwork** » Fri May 05, 2006 10:38 pm

dated 7yrs

proposed at 27yrs old

together 7yrs (together = dating ? right) if not then almost 6 yrs married

Flew her out to New Orleans for a long weekend, post a business trip I had there. We stayed in a swank pad in the Quarter, ate tons of great food and drank tons of booze. I totaly shocked her with the proposal in the private vine covered garden courtyard of our hotel. pretty good job on my part if I do say so myself!

yes, lived together 6yrs

plan a small wedding (we had 30 people and payed for it all ourselves, which meant to interference from family

)

Good luck!

rallysam · Post by **rallysam** » Sat May 06, 2006 4:17 am

0perose wrote:
rallysam wrote:How long were you dating before you got married?
9 years

How old were you when you asked?
25

How long have you two been together?
8 years

you were dating 9 years before you got married but you've only been together for 8 years?

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm*DOESNOTCOMPUTE*mmmmmmmmmbzzt

The secret answer is, I'm engaged but not quite married yet

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Sat May 06, 2006 6:59 am

J-MoNeY wrote:How long were you dating before you got married?

How old were you when you asked?

How long have you two been together?

How did the guy propose? Or women if she did.

Did you live together first?

Any advice for those who arn't?

This is from the first time I got fucked:

3.5 years

21

10 years before the divorce

Over romantic dinner (too cliche in my opinion)

No (shoud have)

Yes. . . don't.

Kelly · Post by **Kelly** » Sat May 06, 2006 7:15 am

Idont beleive theres such a thing as, "sane women".

free5ty1e · Post by **free5ty1e** » Sat May 06, 2006 3:00 pm

Seriously. Haven't any of you caught an episode of "Married With Children?"

scottzg · Post by **scottzg** » Sat May 06, 2006 7:09 pm

it amuses me that this thread is next to one titled "Lol, So I'm thinking of doing the unthinkable"

dzx · Post by **dzx** » Sat May 06, 2006 10:34 pm

lol.

So are you thinking of getting married Justin? My gf kept pointing out promise rings at the jewelry stores in the mall last night, then hit me in the side when i pointed out the 50 dollar promise rings at Kohls.

J-MoNeY · Post by **J-MoNeY** » Sat May 06, 2006 10:54 pm

Ha! I bet that what people are thinking by me making this thread. I'm a wee bit to young and poor for that.

50 bones is plenty for a promise ring. You should promise not to buy her one if she keeps hitting you.

dzx · Post by **dzx** » Sat May 06, 2006 11:03 pm

common, you know you want to propose to some girl.

J-MoNeY · Post by **J-MoNeY** » Sun May 07, 2006 12:04 am

Fiiine. What you say goes.

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Sun May 07, 2006 10:45 am

dzx wrote:common, you know you want to propose to some girl.

Fuck that, no girl is worth the risk.

free5ty1e · Post by **free5ty1e** » Sun May 07, 2006 4:55 pm

Fo shizzy.

If she really loves you, she wouldn't insist on making your union legal. That's all marriage is, getting lawyers and government involved in your relationship. Poisons any relationship faster than you can say "Wha'd I do wrong?"

But I seriously doubt any women are willing to give up marriage and the legal rights that come with it.

LaureltheQueen · Post by **LaureltheQueen** » Sun May 07, 2006 5:10 pm

marriage seems like a bit of a waste of time/money/energy.

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Sun May 07, 2006 5:14 pm

Pre-nup.

free5ty1e · Post by **free5ty1e** » Sun May 07, 2006 5:22 pm

Pre-nups are a nice idea in theory, but try getting your partner to agree to one. Just mentioning the topic will more than likely start an argument...

Laurel, I suppose these generalizations don't apply to you; way to be different.

entirelyturbo · Post by **entirelyturbo** » Mon May 08, 2006 12:19 am

free5ty1e wrote:Seriously. Haven't any of you caught an episode of "Married With Children?"

Better yet, haven't any of you seen 'Intolerable Cruelty'?

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