Yes. I wish I was gay. I'm not saying it's easy for those who are, but it would be easier for me. My solution is not to bother with anyone. In the end, it may be the best solution.
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evolutionmovement wrote:Yes. I wish I was gay. I'm not saying it's easy for those who are, but it would be easier for me. My solution is not to bother with anyone. In the end, it may be the best solution.
Yes, I've had the same attitude. I haven't bothered with anyone in quite some time. Then I felt like I was missing out in life so I took a chance. All I got was disappointment. Even though I got laid, I was still disappointed in it. She was a lousy kisser even. lol Worst 2 weeks of my life........I don't understand why this is eating me up so badly
'91 5MT SS-TD04, WRX TMIC, Bosal twin dump, Spec LW flywheel/pressure plate, FCD, Walbro fuel pump-RIP
'93 5MT N/A wagon, over 400,000 miles!-Gone, parts lived on
'94 Auto SS-vf24, WRX TMIC, Bosal twin dump, Meth kit coming soon!-Now RWD!
my wife has friends that are lesbians, altho they're lesbians, they fight too... and have male gay friends... and from what my wife tells me (she said-she said bla bla bla) gay males fight just as bad if-not worse...
91 L-TW Wagon with a full Swap -RIP
92 SS Prefaced, GD dash swapped, 22T/205 Hybrid 20 psi - BEAST!
93 SS Bone Stock Gone!
94 TW Bone Stock Gone!
91 SS 4EAT Sold!
98 LGT 4EAT
98 LGT Wagon 4EAT
Being single is probably the only way you'll keep away from the BS. Obviously it does have it's drawbacks, but so does being in a relationship. To each is their own, and a lot depends on the person. I am a very independent person (sometimes to a fault). I've been single for the last couple years and really haven't dated anyone seriously. Went on a few dates, but nothing really materialized. I haven't put a lot of effort into things either, but I'm content with where I am right now. I've got plenty of other stuff right now to occupy my time.
my wife has been pretty decent with the whole car gig. she bought me my SS shell when we sold her tercel. she even tried to help with the engine build...
91 L-TW Wagon with a full Swap -RIP
92 SS Prefaced, GD dash swapped, 22T/205 Hybrid 20 psi - BEAST!
93 SS Bone Stock Gone!
94 TW Bone Stock Gone!
91 SS 4EAT Sold!
98 LGT 4EAT
98 LGT Wagon 4EAT
Women do suck. Especially when you gf gets jealous of stupid stuff, like my new android phone, and the fact that I got my car for half the price she paid for her Subi. It's just ruins the good feelings of having new things. But i'll always have the phone and car, but not her!!
You guys just need better women! My fiancé approves of my car habits, goes offloading with me, we use her 2.5RS as our ice race car, doesn't care that I have "car money" that she knows I won't spend on anything else except for emergencies, is addicted to her fun car (even I it is a silly VW haha) and claims is buying my dream car for a Wedding present (77-78' transam).
Apparently, I am the luckiest sob ever, and there is hope for everyone, because when we met I was very bitter about women an had the same "they all suck" attitude.
92' SS: SOLD
98' 2.5GT SOLD, bought back, new stupid build in the works.
98' 2.5 GT-rx :bought not built
I personally don't want a woman into cars, but I hate most car people, anyway. I think people suck, not just women (though I don't give a shit about the guys) because the great majority are so damn superficial, self-absorbed, shallow, weak, unintelligent, boring, and they've never survived anything traumatic. It's not that I can't get them, it's that I don't want them—it just seems like bestiality to me. There are great women out there somewhere, but I am an elephant trapped in the monkey house, looking for the exit so I can find the other elephants, getting increasingly annoyed at the filth and noise of these disgusting primates. Where the hell are the other elephants?! How do I get out of this shit hole?!!
At my age, also, the only single ones left are the rejects—the majority of which are nurses and teachers. I've dated a bunch of both and they all pretty much share the same marginal brain and pull-my-hair-out boring personality, so now I automatically write off any woman that does either of those things. The decent women that married losers in their twenties aren't quite ready to give up on their marriages and admit their failures and the younger ones who aren't married and aren't party girls are still looking for the losers they can divorce in the future after being saddled with kids. That's the other thing—I hate kids. HATE kids. Well, boys at least and there are way too many dudes in this world and most of the time they are granted great privilege just for having a dick and allowed to commit all manner of atrocities and disgusting behavior. I will not add to this number. If I try, I can imagine a series of extremely unlikely scenarios stacking up to put me in the position where I MIGHT be able to have a daughter with someone, but you can't chose genders without spending a lot of money that can go to more intelligent things and that is yet another unlikely scenario—the woman actually going along with choosing gender. Anyway, at my age, many women have them already and if they don't, they want them. Soon. Tick tock and all that.
The kind of women I like are ones that have survived traumatic experiences—the ones I'm most attracted to are always survivors of sexual assault or at least something difficult. The ones that don't turn to drugs or such, that is. But this often leads to complicated relationships that don't seem to work out. Maybe I can find a woman combat veteran, but not likely. I think my only hope would be someone from a country where people don't have it so damn easy. I think I'll just have a relationship with tools and give birth to books and things.
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I personally am enjoying the cerebral tranquility of celibacy. I would LIKE to have a partner.. but I don't know anyone currently and I believe dating is a shortcut to heartache. You meet someone you don't know. You act your best, they act their best, you hook up, move in and three weeks later realize neither of you know the other person because you where both trying to impress each other.
In my opinion getting to know someone, preferably over a period of years, and growing into a relationship is the way to insure a strong, rich relationship. Falling into love with someone you know deeply and knows you just as well... not just when your on your best behavior, but when your worst.
Unfortunately to many people out there need instant gratification and cant invest long term.
Dave
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1993 Legacy Sport Sedan 4EAT "Angel" *sold*
Or if you take too long, you end up in the friend zone. Even worse, the "like a brother" zone. Only once was I able to find the working medium between the fast and unfulfilling and the waiting too long.
I think it would be easier for me to be gay because guys love me. Almost every guy I meet wants to hang out. I've had male stalkers, just had one recently, even. It's fucking weird. Never had a female stalker. Unwanted women have been very easy for me to shake off.
Midnight in a Perfect World on Amazon or order anywhere. The first book in a quartet chronicling the rise of a man from angry criminal to philanthropist. Midnight... is a distopic noirish novel featuring 'Duchess', a modified 1990 Subaru Legacy wagon.