Initially it is amicable, and she moves into the spare bedroom. She even said that I was her best freind and that she wanted to maintain the freindship through it all. We reached an agreement on how the rent would be taken care of and a transition plan. Then she went home to Montana for a week. When she got back she was ice-maiden. The next night, she went out all night and got drunk and didn't come home. She wouldn't tell me who she stayed with, but claimed she didn't hook up with the guy.The next day, she decides that she has to move out immediately. By now she has morphed into super-bizzatch. She says that she needs to move out because she isn't getting over me and because she hates who she is being. She goes to stay on same said guy's couch. She says that part of why she is staying with him is because he is the only guy from ClubWrx who hasn't hit on her or asked her out. And that is the other thing, she suddenly decided she wanted to be part of the ClubWRX crew and is out with those guys every night. And I am expected to not show up at events because she needs her space and time to herself! Needless to say, I have just stayed away because it is uncomfortable. Anyways, she has been out of the house for a week.
Last night she drops the bomb on me. She tells me she is bailing on the rent and the lease and will have all of her stuff out by the end of the week. I am supposed to figure out the $1000 rent bill on my own. Furthermore, she has been lying about her relationship with this guy. It has been less than a month and she is already bedding down with some other guy. She says that she feels more in touch with him than anyone she has ever met and that he is her new best freind. She said the same thing about me 6 months ago. And furthermore, she has informed me that there is nothing for her to gain by continuing to pursue a freindship with me. Once she moves her stuff out, she intends to cut all contact. Unfortunately, but it is starting to look like I am going to have to sue her for the rent. I don't really want to do it, but I have a legal lease that she co-signed on, and I have spoken to an attorney who says I have a case. As soon as she lapses on rent on June 1, I can go to small claims court and file suit.
I have bit my tongue on all of the boards she frequents because I didn't want to be a d1ck and talk trash to her face. But I did need to get this crap off of my chest, so thanks for listening...
Oh, and I do have some work pounding nails, but I don't know if I will be able to finish the Legacy conversion. I may have to start selling off my key performance parts for rent... 
, but I don't think it's worth being tied down to get it.
) and you'll wonder what all the fuss was about. Have a little faith and, again, just do the right thing.
The cheating and the brake up was crappy, but I can deal with it. What sucked was that she didn't have the balls to end it before we moved in together. Well since she didn't end it in July when she started sleeping around, and now we found ourselves on a lease in a new town. I had friends that I could move in with, but she was a real beeeatch in retrospect and had no friends. So I moved out of the single bedroom apt we had and helped pay rent. She stayed until she could find someone to take the remainder of our lease so we didn't get violated by the Mgmt. Well, I found out a little bit later that she really wasn’t looking for anybody to take over the lease, and in fact picked up a room mate ( not the guy she was cheating on me with, but some other tool)…while I was still paying a portion of the rent. So I quit helping with rent promptly, and told her to F-off. I was determined to stay single after that, and it worked for about a year. I’d have to say that was one of the best years of my life. I had no idea how many girls liked me that didn't show it because they new I had a GF, aaah sympathy is good. I’ve got to be hypocritical though, and say that living with the GF is a bad idea…you just need the space….and it’s tough to get out of leases.