Legacy777 wrote:This definitely wasn't meant to smack down any of your ideas or opinions.....just merely some additional thoughts to chew on.
Not taken that way. I wanted this to be a discussion and expressing of opinion, and that's exactly what's going on. I'm enjoying reading everyone's responses.
Legacy777 wrote:Michael, I do want to caution you. You typically don't have people that are one complete side and not the other. They will be a mix of conformity and non-conformity. I honestly think this is very healthy. A good balance in your life is important...in all things. I also want to make mention about your comment about them being meaningless to society.
That's a fairly harsh statement. Again...it may be directed towards the complete extremes in your example, which may be close to being true, but if you were able to take a step back, and look at everything, I don't think it would be a fair statement to say they are meaningless and won't affect the individuals they are in contact with during their life time.
I know it's a harsh statement, and I do mean it for the extreme examples. Most people at least serve some purpose at ONE point in their lives

. I am not claiming myself that the world would be lost without me, I'm pretty much just a regular 20-year-old that works his ass off, loves cars, and wants to f*&k everything in a skirt

. But I have not imposed any special needs over on society, I don't have 50 girls impregnated with no way of supporting them, I'm not in $20,000 worth of debt, and I don't try to screw everyone over just to get a little extra for myself. I know some people like this, unfortunately, and these people get on my nerves a bit.
Legacy777 wrote:You also seem to be focussing a lot of your comments on the automotive realm and individuals in it. This is fine, but be aware there are people outside this realm, and some people may be completely different outside that realm or may just appear to fit/conform to the stereotypical "ricer" yet be struggling with their own identity and actually are good people.
Understood. Peer pressure is an amazing thing. So many people do things that they would never do under any other circumstances just because their friends are watching. There are a lot of good people out there who are just mixing in with the wrong crowd, and eventually they will understand that.
Legacy777 wrote:Why do you look down on them? Is it simply because of how their car is or how they dress? I think you can not like their car style, or their clothes...but to blanketly say you don't like them because of what they drive or wear is a little harsh. See my comment above about an individual struggling with their own identity.
I look down on them because all too often, these people perfectly fit the stereotypes that they set examples of. Yeah, there are probably some guys out there who rice their cars out, dress like thugs, etc. that are probably intelligent, cool guys. But most of the time, they're dumb kids who have no idea what they're doing with their lives, and just follow in their buddies' footsteps because they have no identities of their own. And personally, I don't feel like hanging around them to find out which one they are, because their outward appearance drives them away from me. It's a sad part of human nature, but we will always quickly sum people up from our first impressions, namely outward appearance. It goes both ways too. I have just as many times mingled with someone who had a nice car or whatever, and looked like distinguished people who had some knowledge, only to start talking with them and learn they're ricers on the inside...
I'm also just using the car thing as an example. Whether you're into horseback riding, bungee-jumping, playing Pokemon games

, whatever it is, there are people out there who take their hobby seriously, are very knowledgeable about it, and are generally good people with good social skills, and there are people that think they can do everything and just shove right into a hobby or other avocation for the fame and glory, ruining their reputations and making things harder for everyone else. There is a "ricer" for every hobby IMO

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I am a very opinionated and judgemental person, so I understand that this is more or less my view and in no way do I think the world should operate like this. But I still do grow tired sometimes of people who do nothing but use up resources and make no attempt to better their own situations or others around them.