Does convincing me win prizes? I've never seen so many people upset that they can't get me to shift my thinking and just agree with them.

I can see the concensus hasn't been quite reached, although there have been some good points brought up, all of which boil down to. . . what?
Personal Preference.
I can understand if you're tracking your car, and wanting it to be a performance car, but at that point, I'd expect the car not to be stock, under the hood, hence the need for bigger brakes. Do you need to be making GOBS of power over stock for this to be worth it? Well, that's up to you.
I just see big brake kits on stock cars as ricey, based on my definition of 'rice' which includes advertising something you don't have. What do you think when you see big brake kits? Makes me think that car has already peaked its power limits for the stock brakes, and had to upgrade.
Can I at least win points for arguing the side that saves $3000 by NOT buying a 'factory Brembo this and that'?

Ok, so brakes turn forward motion --momentum-- into heat via friction material --the pads--, which is absorbed and disbursed by the rotor. I understand the surface area argument here, although it sounds like you guys are still teetering on it.
To me, it looks like cooling is an issue. Your brakes fade as the heat goes up, right? This means the rotor is getting hot, as it's not dispersing the heat correctly / enough, right? Even with slotted/drilled rotors, there's a point. How would one rig some NOS to cool their rotors?