What should I do?

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:11 am

Having a slight delima.

I recently had my best friends, sister hook me up with one of her friends. Just real casual like. Just starting to talk.

Delima.

Best friend is also friends with the girl. Basically, she's almost like another sister... only not...

Now. I am pretty sure he doesn't know that I've been talking to her.

Is it imperative that he know, or should I just let him "find out."

I'm not worried that he will down talk me or not approve. I'm a decent guy, so no need for him to worry about me "wham bam thank-you mam"-ing her.

Just curious if I should tell him or let him find out. I don't think it's really that imperative to let him know as he'll probably find out soon enough.

What do you guys think?

THAWA · Post by **THAWA** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:16 am

i think you need to join irc

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:19 am

I told you, that link didn't work.

ciper · Post by **ciper** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:48 am

Well then we cant help

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:53 am

damn you!

Someone has to have some insight.

FG!! · Post by **FG!!** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:57 am

I hate when I see guys think too much. Just do her, that's what all that time before you get married is for.

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 6:58 am

Just bring it up in casual conversation, sometime. Like plan something with her where you guys are going out with other poeple socially, and get him there with your other common friends.

Usually doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure things out once you're seen together among your friends.

evolutionmovement · Post by **evolutionmovement** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:00 am

Give me her number. Problem solved.

Steve

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:03 am

FG - I did the "macking" thing for a while. Not as fun as someone as having someone where sex is garanteed. It's a lot easier going to her place, knowing you'll have sex, instead of going out then hoping her place doesn't smell funny or hoping that you put the pizza and beer away at your place.

Art - Our mutual friends consist of my best friends sister and her boyfriend and a few others. Might bring up the idea of a movie that we all go to. He might get the picture then. We met like 2 weeks ago, and just recently started talking. She's pretty cool though.

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:17 am

That's literally how Laurel and I dropped hints to people over the course of several weeks.

People saw us more and more hanging together at large meets, and eventually, when we started macking at a party, wasn't really a shocker to anyone.

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:25 am

By "macking," I hope you don't mean dry humping on the appetizer table...

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:39 am

BAC5.2 wrote:By "macking," I hope you don't mean dry humping on the appetizer table...

lol

No no no. . . . that came a few parties later.

No, we were just hanging in the kitchen while everyone was socializing around us. Then just gave each other a kiss or three. People got the hint really fast. . .but weren't shocked, either.

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Tue Mar 16, 2004 7:45 am

Good idea Art. I think I just might do that. Only downside is me being at college, and she's a high school senior. But I come home on most weekends, and the semester is over in the next month and a half.

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Wed Mar 17, 2004 3:16 am

BAC5.2 wrote:Good idea Art. I think I just might do that. Only downside is me being at college, and she's a high school senior. But I come home on most weekends, and the semester is over in the next month and a half.

Uh huh. . . . I've been out of college since before Laurel finished gradeschool. . . .

. . . . I know you'll make it work.

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Wed Mar 17, 2004 5:35 am

eewww Art!

His sister mentioned it ot him and he didn't seem to mind. We aren't dating or anything, so it's not like it's that big a deal.

Yukonart · Post by **Yukonart** » Wed Mar 17, 2004 6:36 am

BAC5.2 wrote:eewww Art!

BAC5.2 wrote:His sister mentioned it ot him and he didn't seem to mind. We aren't dating or anything, so it's not like it's that big a deal.

That's perfect. He already knows now, and you two can just let things go about their merry course.

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 7:54 am

Just an update. She's nothing I thought she would be. Very materialistic and didn't seem interested. I'm not going to be wasting my time any longer. Someone else caught my eye that made me forget about every girl I've ever met, lol.

THAWA · Post by **THAWA** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 7:59 am

BAC5.2 wrote:Someone else caught my eye that made me forget about every girl I've ever met, lol.

was her name, IRC?

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 8:02 am

lol, I keep telling you. IRC doesn't work on my computer, lol.

No, her name is Catie.

THAWA · Post by **THAWA** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 8:03 am

evolutionmovement · Post by **evolutionmovement** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 8:07 am

Driving an old Subaru is the best way to separate the materialistic shallow girls from the quality.

Steve

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 8:13 am

Exactly what I said.

Very first thing she said when my friend Chris started his 01 Z28 (with an SLP loudmouth [no mufflers])

"It was so dumb of me to break up with him right before he got that car."

That was the point where I had no interest in speaking with her ever again. So, we got to the movies, I talked with Chris and Andrew about cars while Andrews girlfriend and the girl I was with bitched about us talking about cars all the time. I reluctantly paid for the movie and we had a decent conversation during the previews, but nothing would regain that utterly serious comment she made at the beginning of the date.

Catie, however, has never seen either of my cars, and she is still interested in me. Very promising.

I don't want to get noticed for the car I drive. That's EXACTLY why I drive a 94 Legacy instead of a 2G GSX or a 2G Taurus SHO.

She's gonna kick herself when my car is on the cover of a magazine, lol.

evolutionmovement · Post by **evolutionmovement** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 8:41 am

Exactly, man. I've had women turn their nose up at my car or even the mention of it after I've talked about how much I love my car. I guess they expected a BMW or something. If I can get the screenplay for Midnight in a Perfect World sold and made they're going to look awful stupid (not that their behavior doesn't make them look stupid to anyone with class).

My ex loved me despite being driven around in this:

In fact, she actually liked th car!

Steve

BAC5.2 · Post by **BAC5.2** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 4:54 pm

I should start picking up chicks in my truck, to see what kind of person they really are.

boostjunkie · Post by **boostjunkie** » Wed Mar 24, 2004 6:58 pm

BAC5.2 wrote:Very first thing she said when my friend Chris started his 01 Z28 (with an SLP loudmouth [no mufflers])

"It was so dumb of me to break up with him right before he got that car."

Catie, however, has never seen either of my cars, and she is still interested in me. Very promising.

Hehe. This resembles a conversation I had with my friend about a week ago. We were talkin about all of the girls we've dated and hooked up with and such, and I remarked how I doubted some of the girls would've gone for me in the club had they seen my car first . . .

Then I mentioned how a girl wouldn't see my car when I'm at a bar or club anyways, and usually, by the time we leave she's already commited to coming home with me and has told her friends about it, lost her ride, and lost her ability to get back in the club (or pay another entrance fee). LOL! SUCKERED!

At that point I make my most concerted effort to impress her in other ways . . .chivalry, mannerisms, jokes, good sex (LOL!) . . . anything that steers her attention away from a car.

Honestly, if my attempts to gain her respect from me through those means are eclipsed by her love of a "car," then she's not worth it . . . and I've already hooked up with that self-indulgent individual anyway!! To me, if you act like you're materialistic, then I have no recourse but to be just as "materialistic" about relationships and hooking up. Love 'em and leave 'em. But if she's worth it, then by all means I give my all to a relationship.

The last girl I ended up hooking up with actually thought my car was pretty badass, but thought MORE of the fact that it was hot seein me drive it!

The moral of the story . . . Carry yourself well, and that should net you a good score with a girl (why would you want a money-grubbin girl anyways? I know I'm strapped for cash as it is!!). Besides, I think I've proven that your car can come to a horrible demise in seconds . . . and then where would this "trophy" girl be?

LOL! I've got a turbo, intercooler, MBC, and full exhaust you could use to lay waste to that z28 (that's all you'll need). I betcha the dude can't launch worth sh-t off a dig!!

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What should I do?

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